Teaching Teens About Privacy on Social Media

Social media is a huge part of teen life these days. As a parent, it can feel overwhelming to keep up — and even more stressful to know how to guide your teen without coming across as controlling. The good news? Teaching them about privacy can be simple, practical, and even fun.

1. Start With a Conversation

Before diving into settings or apps, start with a conversation. Ask your teen what platforms they use, what they enjoy about them, and what concerns they might have. Make it a two-way dialogue, not a lecture.

2. Explain Why Privacy Matters

Teens often don’t think about the long-term impact of sharing personal information. Explain that:

• Posts, photos, and stories can be permanent online.
• Sharing location or personal details can have safety implications.
• Even seemingly private content can be shared without their knowledge.

3. Teach Platform Settings

Show your teen how to adjust privacy settings on their favorite platforms:

• Set accounts to private so only approved friends can see posts.
• Control who can comment or send messages.
• Limit personal information like birthdate, phone number, or school name.

4. Encourage Smart Posting Habits

Help your teen develop a few simple rules for posting:

• Think before sharing. “Would I want my grandparents or teachers to see this?”
• Avoid posting location in real-time.
• Don’t share passwords, even with friends.

5. Lead by Example

Your teen will notice how you handle your own social media. Show them good habits, like adjusting privacy settings, thinking before posting, and being mindful of the digital footprint.

6. Make It a Continuous Conversation

Privacy and social media are constantly changing. Schedule a regular check-in, not as a one-time lecture. Make it natural: talk about a new app, a trending challenge, or something your teen encountered online.